Mihaela Stancu – Coach | Trainer
Engineering lives & careers that matter. Personal development blog
Have you ever been so passionate about something that you become addicted to it at the first sight? It happened to me with NLP. I call it "the affair" of my life! When I started my first job, it became clear for me that for me the passion for the human mind and human connection... Continue Reading →
It's dark in my heart now again. There is no one around. Silence and blackness reign over my emptied soul realm. Yet, I am not afraid anymore. I know I am still home. This weird feeling of safety creates an energy ball around me. And I remember. I have been here so many times before.... Continue Reading →
The way of hard truth - tells a story about accepting inner stories many of us repeat to ourselves. It is a story of truth, of no lies.
I felt for a long time like a goldfish in my wonderful protecting bowl. I was having all that I needed to be happy and was happy with all that I had. I was admired by people around me, loved by ones, envied by some or ignored by some others. I was saying and doing... Continue Reading →
And what if I am a million pieces combined together to sparkle one single ray of light? I dedicate today to tell the story of who I am. I am nothing more or less than who I chose to become in every moment of my life so far. I am all my experiences, hopes and... Continue Reading →
Before closing the NLP Train the Trainer, we had to find a message to define our future dream as trainer. My mind was empty, but while walking around in peace, hearing just my breath, my mind emptied slowly. Out of nowhere, my truth appeared like the most ingenious idea, in an instant. For me, to... Continue Reading →
I felt teared apart many times and in many ways. I felt I live in the same time in million universes and went in as many directions. I roamed all these years in the pursuit of something undefined, unspecified, unknown or not even thought. It felt like a hard walk through a stormy desert. Tasting... Continue Reading →
In the last week self esteem workshop, we looked to ourselves inside-out in the attempt to observe the self esteem. The reality is that we see ourselves in different ways: We see ourselves through the glasses of social norms and rules and etiquette: how we should be. We learn these rules in early childhood from... Continue Reading →
I received a gift the other day. I feel grateful and blessed to have people around me who support me with these amazing resources. I was writing my new article on self esteem. I received a recommendation of Virginia Satir's self esteem declaration. I read it once, and then again, and again, even though I... Continue Reading →
Did ever occurred to you to receive a compliment that you thought is not true? Or did you ever relied mainly on other people to make you compliments while in your silence you just criticize yourself over and over again? Often we have two parts. One part that we show to the people in outer... Continue Reading →
